PWTG Episode 032: Interview with Tony and Niki Oury

In this episode of Parenting with Truth and Grace we interview Tony and Niki Oury. Tony is a business 10527757_10208679757572414_3338683900363973995_nowner and Niki serves as Children’s Ministry Director at Lake City Community Church in Lakewood, Washington. You can listen to the Podcast here. Also, if you haven’t already subscribed, why don’t you subscribe now so you automatically get each weeks newest episode?

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Favorite Verse or Quote – James 1:19-20 “Slow to speak and slow to become angry” Early on in parenting Tony was letting his anger affect and get in the way of his relationships with his wife and kids. Since finding the Lord and hearing this verse, he has strived to live out this verse in his parenting.

Jeremiah 32:27 ” I am the Lord your God. Is anything too hard for me?” There is nothing too hard for the Lord. You have to always keep that in mind when especially when it comes to your marriage and parenting. We have to go to the Lord with everything.

Parenting Failure – The moment when Tony realized he was becoming the hurtful father figure he had grown up with.

Niki on the other hand  was so guarded with her children because of how devastated they were when her first marriage fell apart. It caused her to focus on never hurting her kids rather than focusing on how God wanted her to parent.

Parenting Ah-ha Moment – Thinking that once kids turned eighteen they were done parenting. Realizing soon after all her kids started becoming adults that it doesn’t stop there. God has more work to do on parents and on kids. Parenting goes way beyond eighteen.

Proudest Parenting Moment – You always pray for your kids to come to know the Lord and to have a heart to serve him. Tony knew he was doing something right when he got to baptize  his own kids.

One thing you are excited about in this season – All their kids are growing up and entering a season of life that is very fun. To see them all have a heart for the Lord and to serve him in their own ways.

Lightning round – 

  • Greatest fear – Failing, becoming the parent that I despised growing up.
  • Best advice – To capture their hearts.
  • One of your personal habits that contributes to your success – Through the stress and challenges of a blended family, learning to just keep going. Also Niki had made it a habit to use scripture prayers.
  • Parenting website – Jodi Durr at Meaningful Mama, a great resource to weave faith and raising little kids.

One thing they would do differently- To follow the Lord from the very beginning. Also to have had more conversations together about parenting. Because they both came into the marriage with kids, they also came in with particular ways of parenting. Because they didn’t talk about it, they weren’t always on the same page.

Top Priorities for parenting – 

  1. You have to have a relationship with Jesus, and he has to be the center of everything.
  2. Communication!

2 thoughts on “PWTG Episode 032: Interview with Tony and Niki Oury

  1. We adopted two of our children from foster care, and a blended family was created without divorce. Their parents are alive, but involved very sporadically.
    They’re now in their twenties, and our relationship is still growing, developing trust, and are putting the pain of the past behind us.
    Our family is richer for the situation. My walk with the Lord is much deeper.
    Parenting teens is not for the weak, but God is faithful.

    • Thank you so much for sharing and even more for loving kids! We know God is using our kids to expose and grow us and will probably be working on us until we take our last breath here on earth. It is a quite a journey but a wonderful one like you shared!! Blessings…David and kelli

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